Monday, December 13, 2010

The Border Line...

So, what's the borderline between love and friendship?

Was it, like Wayne said, friendship will only bring you to a cinema and nothing more, but love will ask you to bed and wants more?

In my opinion, it's not.

To me, friendship is more than just a cinema's fun could bring you.
Friendship is something much deeper than that.
You can share like almost anything include your love life with your bestest best friend, and they will make you happy, make you laugh, and spice up your life.
True friends will stay beside you, give you advices when you're in deep trouble, and even help you out with everything they had.
True friends will comfort you and listen to you when you're in a bad mood.
True friends would never betray you for anything, excluding their family's life or their lover's life, of course.
True friends would understand your choices of choosing your dearest over them.
True friends would even argue with their dearest just to save you from your most critical moments...
But of course, not all of them are as willing as that.



Love, however, is the biggest confusion that I'm thinking about it right now.

So, you're caring so much about this person, and he or she does the same. But, are they in love with each other?
So, you're giving so much towards this person, though he or she didn't have any reactions at all. Well, are you two a couple?
So, you're feeling tonnes of happiness with this person, who makes you happy, understood you, shares everything with you, and even willing to risk his or her time for you. But are you two a couple?
So, you're feeling so torn apart with this person, who makes your heart break, maybe hates you, being so distant and cold with you, but a tiny thing that he or she do will make you happy for the whole day. Is this how a couple should be?
So, you're very close to this person, and the both of you are so much in sync, understood each other so well that you're like a pair of twin, that everyone would thought and even hoped that you two are a couple. But, are you two having feelings for each other?
So, you're originally a best friend towards this person, but then you two became a secret couple that nobody knew about it. Then, the two of you became so distant to each other that it's on the verge to break up, but since both of you originally best friends so you two still care about each other just in case the if the other, or the others, might suspect... so are the two of you still having feeling for each other? Or the both of you are just friends now? But how can you define being just friends without having a mistake at your own feelings?

One is your true friend, one is a total stranger, and the other is an ex. But there's no lines saying "if you cross this line, you're in love with him or her". It can be emotionally, it can be physically, but there's still not a line.
Love is a feeling, that you cared a lot and want to know more about your lover, that you wanted to be together with your lover, that you desired to be the only one of your lover. But the confusion starts even before you two are a couple, or maybe it might be mixed up with what true friendship is.
The unknown jealousy, the odd thoughts of being only with him/her, the fantasy of you two being together as a couple... and all those "What If"s.
But then, you realize that you're not really "in love" with him or her. It's merely just a crush or some kind of mixed and confused feeling.

That's why, I'm still thinking.
What's exactly the borderline of love and friendship?
Could they mean deeper than what I thought of, or simpler than I could think of?



PS: Oh yes, I do need people's opinion here. PX Just reply anywhere you like, LOL 8D